How can I.....?

Look better....I'm 5'6 172 pounds....I have acne....I am a tomboy (straight) I have a big nose big thighs big stomach and big calfs. I wear Band T-Shirts, Hats, Black baggy pants w/chains, Jeans, Basketball shorts, black eyeliner, studded belts, basketball jerseys, vans, converse. I listen to metal, punk, and skae bands. People like my personality but no1 likes how I look. Plz help me :( I want people to stop calling me a boy but I refuse to change my wardrobe it's who I am. I just wish I could be who I am without being ugly. I have frizzy curly hair that won't grow. It'sat my shoulders.

thnx

How can I.....?

Start with your hair. A new hairstyle or change of hair always works. Start using Garnier Fructis. They have hair care systems for frizzy hair. I'd also suggest straightening it or cutting it in some crazy cool way that you will keep up with. Also try Pro Active for your acne, I have bad acne to but it's gotten a TON better since I have started using Pro Active. If you can't get that, I reccomend using acne products you can find at Walmart. Get something that you can use in the morning and night so you have all around pimple treatment. As for your clothes, if you are comfortable in them, keep wearing them. You could even opt for a change of wardrobe. There is a cheap but really nice store called Rue 21 that has great clothes for low prices. But if you want to lose weight, start watching what you eat - I'm serious. Just try to eat less fatty and high calorie foods and put healthier foods like veggies and fruits into your diet. You will feel better too if you eat healthy and feel healthy.

Don't ever feel like you are less than anyone else by how you look. People are just putting you down because you are different from them but that is not a bad thing at all.

How can I.....?

dont even think about changing if you dont want to.. just be who you are and it doesnt matter what other ppl say ignore them.

How can I.....?

try straightening your hair.

and putting on some make up if you have acne.

How can I.....?

use frizz ease (it's a spray by john frieda, or something like that) on your hair.. trust me sister, i've got the exact same hair as you :).. you can straighten it sometimes! i recommend the chi

and u can use coverup on your face.. i recommend "maybelline dream matte" it works really good on my face

good luck!

How can I.....?

Maybe you could still dress punk without looking like a guy? try getting some tighter pants, or skinny jeans that look cute (they can still be black) and maybe wear some punk jackets over band shirts. Studded belts are cool, thay look cool. Wear fitted T shirts, and try to stay off the baggy clothes. Get some cute vans or cons- like slip ons, not so much the sneakers. Don't wear hats! Or wear cute ones. Try to use defrizz conditioner- herbal Essances curly shampoo is really good!

Hope I helped :)

How can I.....?

Okay... Wear wide leg pants instead of baggy pants (you can find baggy wide legs). Get some proactive for your acne. Get some Frizz-ease for your hair. And learn how to wear natural looking makeup to make you look prettier. Just maybe some powder and mascara is all you probably need.